Welcome To The Sexy Directory!
Your curated guide to better sex, deeper intimacy, and discovering what becomes possible when you start prioritizing pleasure.
In a world overflowing with noise—and where shadowbanning makes it hard to access quality sex education—The Sexy Directory cuts through the overwhelm. We curate the best tools, teachers, and turn-ons so you can confidently explore your desires and create a sex life that feels like a real-life Magic Movie Moment—the kind you remember, savor, and want more of.
🎧 Every post includes a voiceover read by me, Arielle Zadok—so you can listen on the go, stay connected, and keep learning at your own pace
What You’ll Find Inside (for Free)
We focus on three main areas of sex and intimacy to help you create unforgettable scenes in every day life: People, Places, and Products. Think of it as your personal pleasure roadmap—because great sex doesn’t happen by accident. It’s influenced by what you know, where you go, and what you bring into the bedroom.
🌹 Products To Try;
Honest reviews of the toys and tools you’ve been curious about—so you know what’s worth your time, your money, and your body.
From vibrators and condoms to squirt blankets and kinky accessories, we break down what’s worth trying and where to buy it—so you can shop with confidence, curiosity, and a better understanding of what actually works for you.
📍 Places To Go.
Thoughtful guides for romantic dates, sexy staycations, and everything in between.
Great sex doesn’t start in the bedroom—it starts with atmosphere. The right setting can shift everything: your mood, your energy, your connection. This section takes the pressure off planning and helps you discover spots that do the heavy lifting for you.
From seasonal events and sultry shows to luxe hotels, candlelit restaurants, and unexpected gems (yes, even spooky botanical gardens), we’re here to help you find places that set the tone for whatever kind of night you want to have.
Got a suggestion? Send it my way at connect@thesexydirectory.com—if it piques my interest, I’ll check it out.
💋 People To Lean From.
Get up close and personal with the sexperts Instagram doesn’t want you to find.
These aren’t just resumes and bios—they’re intimate, editorial-style profiles that introduce you to the sexperts shaping how we think about pleasure, intimacy, and embodiment today. From coaches and creators to therapists, scholars, and educators, these are the voices offering real, nuanced perspectives you won’t find in your algorithm-filtered feed.
As Editor-in-Chief, I ask the juicy questions, explore their origin stories, and spotlight what drives their work—so you get a deeper look at the people you’ll want to learn from, trust, and follow.
Many of them will also be sharing their insights directly with you through guest posts, making this space a collaborative and ever-evolving conversation.
Have someone you’d love to see featured?
Send your recs to connect@thesexydirectory.com—I’m always on the lookout for voices that deserve more visibility.
What you get with a paid membership
First and foremost, this publication will always be free. The goal of The Sexy Directory is to be a reliable, judgment-free resource for your sex, love & intimacy journey—but I also want you to feel like you have somewhere to turn, even when coaching or group programs feel out of reach.
That’s why I created the paid membership: to give you direct access to support in a way that’s flexible, affordable, and personal.
What a paid membership gets you:
Monthly Office Hours: Group coaching where you’ll get all of your questions answered whether you’re on the call or submit in advance
Members-Only Group Chat: A safe space to ask questions ahead of calls, celebrate wins, and stay connected with others on their sex-positive pleasure journey.
Support The Mission: Your membership helps keep this resource free and growing- while funding access to sex education other platforms try to hide.
Have a question you’d like to submit for Office Hours? Click here to submit and remember, your first post will always be free!
About Your Head Mistress
The founder, Head Mistress, and guiding force behind The Sexy Directory is me—Arielle Zadok, ABS, also known as The Pleasure Producer.
With two decades of experience in film, television, and advertising, I built my career behind the camera—running high-stakes productions and leading teams with precision, heart, and creative vision. I led the Health & Safety Program for Disney Television, managed multi-million-dollar sets, and became the go-to for solving the unspoken problems no one else could touch.
My work today combines my background in production, sex education, and holistic health coaching—bringing a uniquely integrated lens to the way I help people experience intimacy, embodiment, and erotic growth.
Now, I use that same skillset to help people transform their relationships, their sex lives, and the stories they’ve been telling themselves about intimacy.
As an Intimacy Coordinator, Sexologist, and Coach, I bring a unique blend of high-level production, emotional intelligence, and practical sex education to everything I do. I’m here to help you see the whole picture, name what’s not working, and craft experiences that are hot, honest, and deeply connected.
That’s what The Sexy Directory is all about:
Bringing production-level clarity, creativity, and curation to your sex life.
Because great sex isn’t just spontaneous—it’s designed.
Want to work with me? Here's how:
Office Hours (Next Session is May 15th): The most affordable way to get coaching with me. Submit your questions anytime and get personalized, no-BS guidance on our monthly webinar. Click here to join.
Main Character Mindset (Spots Open 5/15): A 1:1 coaching experience for individuals ready to shift the mindset and limiting beliefs shaping their sex and intimacy. We’ll rewrite your internal script, clarify what you truly want, and anchor your transformation with a custom intimacy affirmation to return to again and again. Click here to get notified.
The Erotic Rewrite (Spots Open 6/9): A private, 1:2 coaching experience for couples ready to rework their sexual story and create a new script rooted in shared desire, clarity, and connection. Built on my Movie Magic Moments framework, this journey helps couples move from disconnected to choreographed, confident, and creatively turned on. Join the Waitlist.
Fck Like The Movies (Waitlist Open): A 6-week group coaching program designed to help you create your very own Movie Magic Moments, with a step-by-step approach to making your sex life feel intentional, expansive, and unforgettable. Get on the list.
Intimacy Coordinating for Film & Television: Planning a shoot with intimacy, nudity or hyper exposure? I’m a Certified Intimacy Coordinator with 20 years of on set experience. Shoot me an email and let’s see if we’re a good fit.
I’m always open to feedback and ideas. If there’s something you’d like to share, please reach out to feedback@thesexydirectory.com
I hope you enjoy exploring The Sexy Directory!
xx Head Mistress Arielle
