Welcome To The Sexy Directory!
Welcome to The Sexy Directory, your go-to resource for better sex, deeper intimacy, and exploring the expansiveness of your body and pleasure. In a world overflowing with information and shadowbanning blocking access, finding what you need can be overwhelming. We make it easy by curating the best resources for your sexual journey
Here’s a bit of what you can expect…
We focus on three main areas of sex and intimacy; People, Places and Products.
🌹 Products To Try;
In-depth reviews to help you find the best tools for your pleasure.
This is where we review pleasure products like vibrators, condoms, squirt blankets and kinky accessories so you have a better idea of what you’d like to try, and where you can buy it from.
📍 Places To Go.
Thoughtful guides for romantic dates and sexy getaways.
Everyone loves a good date night or sexy staycation, but planning these outings can not only be overwhelming, but it can (and does) lead to trouble in paradise when it’s always on one partner. This section is all about helping you get ideas of what to do, and determine if it’s the vibe you’re looking for. We explore tourist destinations like museums, seasonal events like spooky botanical gardens, hotels and resorts for a sexy getaway, mainstay shows like the Moulin Rouge, romantic restaurants for special occasions and so much more. If we think it could make for a good time for you, we’re going to check it out. And yes, we take requests! Just email us at connect@thesexydirectory.com and we’ll check it out if it’s a good fit!
💋 People To Lean From.
Expert-led workshops and classes tailored to your schedule.
On 6/9 we’ll be launching our education platform that brings you expert-led, gamified sex education that makes learning about sex and intimacy private, accessible and fun. Our workshops are all broken down into bite-sized pieces making it easy for you to go at your own pace (even when you don’t have much time), and come back to the exact information you’re looking for whenever you want to reference it.
As new instructors are onboarded and new classes are released, we’ll be sharing their profiles here and linking you their classes on The Sexy Directory platform.
What you get with a paid membership
First and foremost, this publication will always be free. That’s because our goal is to be a resource. While our workshops and courses will always be behind a paywall, the purpose of this publication is to serve a free resource for you, so please take full advantage of everything we are putting together to support your sexual journey.
What a paid membership gets you:
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Send private DMs
Access to monthly Q&A posts based off the questions that you send via DM
Support The Sexy Directory’s mission & operations
All of our fundraising energy is in this space so if you support what we are doing and want to help keep this as a free resource, becoming a paid member is the best way to ensure we can continue to provide this service.
About Your Head Mistress
The Founder, Head Mistress and guiding force behind The Sexy Directory is me, Arielle Zadok, ABS.
The Sexy Directory is a pioneering platform that merges my two decades of film, television, and advertising experience with a Master Class approach to pleasure education. Drawing on my background in high-level production and operations, I’m building The Sexy Directory from the ground up to ensure every course, resource, and interaction meets the same consistent, high-quality standards I once delivered for major brands and celebrity-led projects.
Before launching The Sexy Directory, I built the Health & Safety program at Disney Television, leading sizable teams and managing large-scale productions. As an Intimacy Coordinator and Sexologist, I bring a methodical coaching style that blends mind-body techniques with practical guidance. Unlike other platforms that leave users to navigate digital classes alone, I’m always here as Head Mistress—ready to answer questions, offer support, and provide a safe space for exploring intimacy on a deeper level.
Now, I’m launching a movement and creating a pathway to pleasure education that people of all genders can trust and get excited about. By marrying top-tier production values with gamified learning that normalizes open conversations around sex, I’m elevating sexual wellness into a realm of online learning that includes and empowers everyone—especially men. Join me in shaping the future of pleasure education—where robust knowledge, playful exploration, and true connection are the driving forces behind every intimate experience.
Here’s how you can work with me for personalized support:
Coven of Harlots - Monthly group coaching for women, femmes & non-binary people who want to grow within a safe, supportive, sex-positive community.
Pleasure Power Hour - A 1 hour call where we flush out what you’re currently stuck on in your sex and / or intimate relationship(s), clarify best next steps and ensure you’re moving in alignment with your long term, big-picture vision.
Erotic Pathway Couples VIP Day - A comprehensive exploration into your desires as individuals and as a couple. Together, we identify blocks, shape your shared vision, and leverage resources to create a roadmap for your ideal sex life. This experience is available in virtual, single-day, and full-weekend options, perfect for couples preparing to say "I do" or those looking to reignite the spark in a long-term relationship.
I’m always open to feedback and ideas. If there’s something you’d like to share, please reach out to feedback@thesexydirectory.com
I hope you enjoy exploring The Sexy Directory!
xx Head Mistress Arielle
