💋 Office Hours May Replay

All members get a sneak peak of what was asked and answered

We had such a great inaugural Office Hours call with some really juicy questions that I know will hit home for a lot of you.

Each month when I share these replays, you’ll all get to see the exact questions that were asked (always kept anonymous) so you can upgrade when it feels right for you.

Transcript, video and audio along with all resources mentioned can be found behind the paywall below.

Our next call will be mid-June, so if you missed your chance to ask me anything this month, you can submit anytime for June using THIS LINK.

Onto this month’s questions:

• I'm a single female interested in exploring more D/s dynamics. In previous relationships, I've only experimented a little bit, but since it's all new and a bit taboo, I felt embarrassed trying to ask for what I wanted from a partner who didn't understand. Now that I'm single, I'm not sure where to start though, or really, where to find those people/communities. I'm also nervous because this is completely out of my wheelhouse and I don't want to be taken advantage of by some guy who says he's a Dom, but he's really just a rough, inconsiderate guy. Any suggestions on how to explore this more safely and how/where to find dominant partners?

• How to gain confidence in expressing out loud directions to the partner during sex? I get locked up in my mind thinking I’m gonna sound silly or mispronounce things and will be misunderstood or simply getting over inner shame about things I’d like my partner to do (for me, or for themselves). Thx!

• Hi!! I have recently started dating a female-to-nonbinary person who takes a low dose of t and Im kinda clueless about how to go down on them??? I have experience in wlw sex, but I’ve heard t can make your clit grow and I have no idea what to expect or how to make them feel good. They’ve also had top surgery and don’t like penetration, so I want to blow their mind but don’t feel confident without my usual skill set available! They’re coming over tomorrow, and while I feel comfortable asking them what they want I just wanted to see if you have any tips 🤔 I imagine it’s more like a clit than a penis???

• Trying to bridge the gap between our engagement styles at events and parties. I like to feel connected to her, she wants to be free and autonomous. How can we make space for both of us to create an experience that isn’t fulfilling for both of us? For example: Sometimes I struggle with her sexual appetite at parties. The line I heard once and often think about is “Does she have to fuck everyone at the party.” How can I work on the emotions surrounded by this.

• My partner and I are going to a sex party together. How can we prepare so we both have a good time - together and independently?

Okay, onto the recording below!

xx