🌹 Chakrubs Heart Curve
The rose quartz pleasure product I can't live without
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Ya’ll I have been busy over here between running Office Hours (you can catch the June replay HERE), launching Tarot After Dark, my sex coaching spin on tarot readings using my erotic deck that’s so spicy I literally cannot show the on social media and finally giving life to my signature program, Fck Like The Movies, created for couples who want to elevate their intimacy and learn how to co-create their own Movie Magic Moments, something I’ve been low key working on for the last year. The group program launches in August (my birthday!), but between now and June 30th, I’ve opened up 3 private coaching spots. You can peep the program HERE. It’s really fucking good, but don’t take my word for it, come on in and join the party.
So it’s been all of that, and I’ve had some really juicy, experiences with lovers and friends that have kept the eroticism and co-creation flowing in my life.
Between birthing programs, showing up on TikTok (yes, I finally did it and I love it over there), and relishing in memories, fantasies and visualizations of the future… my Chakrubs Heart Curve has gotten a lot of use lately.
And it’s been very pleasurable.
What Is This Thing?
The Charkub Heart Curve is a crystal dildo (or wand if you prefer that term) and massager… for both your back and your g-spot… and your cervix too. I have the rose quartz, but this shape is offered in black obsidian and rhodonite as well.
If you prefer no curve, they have the original in rose quartz, jade, clear quartz and amethyst as well as a slimmer option in rose quartz.
What Does It Do?
Blows your fucking mind. Okay, okay, I’ll be serious (though it really will blow your mind). The heart curve can be used internally or externally for stimulation. Think: penetration, cervical stimulation, clitoral stimulation and g-spot stimulation. You could also use this to externally stimulate your butthole, but there is no stopper, so this is for external anal use only.
Beyond that, the heart curve can also be used as a traditional massager to get into sticky muscles that need relief. And yes, it really works.
We can’t escape the reality that these are crystals capable of profound healing for many people. We’ll get into that more below.
Who Is It For?
Primarily this is for people with vulvas, but that’s not to say someone with a penis wouldn’t enjoy working with these crystals because again, that’s what they are.
But I cannot stress this enough, do not put this up your butt!! If you want crystals up your ass, the have a black obsidian butt plug for that. You can find that HERE.
What Are The Materials?
Pure crystals. Rose quartz, amethyst, black obsidian, rhodonite, clear quartz and jade, depending on what product you are purchasing.
The heart curve specifically is available in rose quartz, black obsidian and rhodonite.
There is some conflicting information regarding how porous crystals are, but chakrub’s research has concluded that “rose quartz, clear quartz and amethyst are non-porous and other crystals may be porous or have ‘closed porosity’ meaning that pores lay on the surface of the stone but would be very difficult for bacteria to sleep through to the center and can be washed away with mild soap and warm water”.
What Is The Price Point?
$$$ - All heart curves are $200 and worth every fucking penny.
Where Can I Find It?
Rose Quartz Curve | Black Obsidian Curve | Rhodonite Curve | Yoni Eggs | Butt Plug | Jade Original | Rose Quartz Original | Clear Quartz Original | Amethyst Original | Rose Quartz Slim | Ridged Black Obsidian
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Anything Else I Need To Know?
Whether you’re woo-woo or not, these are crystals and they do hold energy, shift energy and heal energy. This isn’t for everyone and for some people these aren’t for every day use. But for me, this is the toy I can’t live without.
I bought my heart curve in October of 2020 at a time when the world was falling apart, and I was working at Disney Television leading the covid health and safety department, running emergency response literally around the clock making sure you could watch your favorite shows like Jimmy Kimmel Live and A Million Little things among many, many others. 6 months later, I bought a heart curve for a dear friend’s birthday because I literally could not imagine a better gift than this for someone who was working the same job as me (a story for another day). To say we needed pleasure and stress relief at the time is a severe understatement.
I had been lusting after chakrubs for as long as I can remember. I became a health coach in 2014 and it was shortly after entering into that world that chakrubs came across my instagram feed. The photos were so beautiful, so aspirational, so calming.
But for whatever reason, they never felt like they were for me… until I saw the curve.
In truth it still probably took some time before I purchased mine, but when I finally did, I was so excited. Maybe even a little… nervous? I mean, I’d worked with crystals extensively when I was creating custom malas for clients I was doing mindset coaching with (again, a story for another day) but I’d never put one… up my pussy.
I remember opening the beautiful package and taking her out of her soft, cushioned covering. The little card inside mentioned taking time to connect with your chakrub, noting that your body might not be ready for it immediately.
Pause for a friendly reminder that vaginas will always OPEN UP WHEN READY, because it’s what they’re built for. Never ever ever push something in and brag about how “tight it is”. That tightness means it doesn’t want you inside (even if the human attached to it does). Wait for the vagina to open and expand like a vampire at the door waiting for an official invitation and always use your words. This is not a “push to see what happens” test. Including during self pleasure. If you’re not respecting your own body’s boundaries, it will be hard for your body to feel safe, open and expansive with yourself let alone others.
My first thought was “yeah, sure, whatever”, so I fully expected to play with it that night the way I would any other shiny new pleasure product. So there I was, ready to explore my beautiful new crystal wand. I set the space, lit the candles, put on music, put on some lingerie and went to begin my pleasure practice and then… nothing. I laid on my bed, chakrub in hand, wondering why my body wasn’t in the mood to explore despite all things pointing to the perfect night.
And then I remembered, this is not your average sex toy.
So instead of forcing anything into my body, I remember sitting there with my chakrub on my chest, feeling its weight sink into my body with each breath and we were simply there, together. Connecting. Breathing. Getting to know one another. It was the perfect way to start any wildly pleasurable sexual partnership, and that’s exactly what we’ve had.
I can’t tell you how many sessions it took before my chakrub finally entered my body, but what I can tell you is that since that day, I have had some of the deepest, most pleasurable solo orgasms of my life. Including multiple orgasms just the other night.
What I love about the heart curve especially, is the weight (which feels great externally), the size (perfect for my body), the bulb at the bottom (which I use as a handle, but can also be used for g-spot stimulation), the way it holds temperatures (warm and cold) and of course, the fact that it’s completely made out of rose quartz.
Yeah, we’re gonna talk about crystals babe. You know I don’t like to get too woo woo, but there is absolutely value in integrating the metaphysical with the logical.
So here we go.
All chakrubs are craved from the “mother stone” meaning they’ve never been owned before they reach you. They are sourced ethically from Brazil and were created with intention for internal use. Now without going down a crystal rabbit hole, I will say that the healing energy of crystals, which are solid materials made up of specific atoms, molecules and / or ions arranged in highly structured ordered microscopic structures forming a crystal lattice that extends in all directions, have been known to humans for thousands of years. One of the most fascinating things to me and my analytical brain is that around the world, humans without phones or the internet would find the same stones and documented the same healing properties. Humans who had zero contact with each other in their lifetimes came to the same conclusions about the same stones. Now that shit is wild. And shows the power of intuition.
Way back then and still today, healing crystals have been used for their energetic properties whether that’s self love and compassion like the rose quartz, protection and grounding like the black obsidian or compassion and confidence like rhodonite. Each stone has a different metabolic makeup and it’s believed that each crystal interacts with the body’s energy field to promote physical and spiritual healing. Scientifically speaking, there’s no real evidence to back up the woo woo shit, though anecdotally you will hear story after story after story.
And the truth is, my chakrub has absolutely been a part of my sexual healing journey. Plus, the placebo effect is real ya’ll so in the end if it helps, who cares.
FINAL THOUGHTS
I love my chakrub. Whether it’s because the rose quartz has tapped into my heart in ways other crystals haven’t or if it’s because I can consistently give myself the best cervical orgasms with her, this is one product I cannot live without. While I use it in most pleasure practices, I sometimes also just want to hold her or sleep with her under my pillow.
This is one pleasure product I absolutely put my seal of approval on, and you can get yours here.
Do you have a chakrub? Do you have questions? Comments are now open to all subscribers so let me know what you think!
Yours with deep pleasure and multiple heart curve orgasms,
xx
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